Why are online when Don & # 039; t want to meet?

At meetings of the Board, a reader asks: "Why is it that when women eamil Onlie, most do not even have the courtesy to give me a" no thanks, "I sent a message or hundreds of women, but hardly any? responds.I congratulate them and tell them, I would know better.

Nothing ... what's the ladies? Why are online when you leave?

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Not that I do. Posted This is probably one of the following reasons:

• The dating site is not to clean up the database regularly so that people could be gone, and you'll never know (which is most of the major dating sites, for that matter);


• Profiles are fictitious profiles, ie from scammers or smaller sites that are trying to pump their numbers;


• Women feel overwhelmed by the response and can not respond to all. The first time I connected a dating site, many years ago, I received over 100 people contact me every day. There was no way I could say, "Thanks, but no thanks" to all;


• Consider the past, when a large number of people in contact with a woman should use a method to easily eliminate the people. Spelling, grammar or spelling errors - of which there are many in your E-Mail to me - are usually the first things that people notice, and therefore rarely an answer.


• Another way to see a lot of aspiring online, whether the person really taken the time to look and respond with something at your profile, the real and interested in looking to weed. If all you do is copy, in the same: "Hey look, cool, I would like to" all women, you are communicating is unlikely to get an answer.

Many dating sites have posted the response rate, ie, how many people receive a response to your first email. 1-3% is normal, not more than 5% is excellent. Sorry, I know - but if you really listen to what I mean, you can easily increase your response rates usually something you mentioned, and read personal e-mail someone's profile, comment or joke. I would also look at your dating profile, as there may be something that makes women out to answer.

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