It is me, or is it just sex?

Theresa asks: "I am from a man who frequent sex with me I like a lot like it, but how do I know if he likes me more than our physical game.?"

Teresa, thank you for your question - in a way, I'll take more questions than answers. It seems to me that you are looking for some sign of acknowledgment of his boys. It is a healthy and valuable insights that can not get what you or are you worried that no help for sex.

I want to ask: What needs to be loved? What you need to be happy and satisfied in your relationship? The words, actions, gifts of affection and affirmation? All these can be significant and nurturing qualities in new and lasting relationships.

The man just wants to say, "you ask," but I also know that each person is presented to this question is "Oh shit house must be a trick question ... What can I do, What Should say or honesty?? appeasement? not it obvious that I love, that I can not keep my hands in it. "Many men are under the gun, but could not be real and sincere hope answer. In addition, different conditions people communicate in different ways.

While frequent sex is a clear indication of physical interest in reviewing her husband to his other interests / intentions require attention in order to influence their actions. How to know if he loves you in other ways?

Pay attention to how a person connects with you:

• Is the phone or text or only connected is always a booty call?
• It is expressly words or messages of affection? Words to express affection and care?
• Maybe he does things for you, to help you when you have a rough day or a difficult task?
• Gifts of any kind? Large or small? Want to tell a little note - the simplest things can be the most lovable.
• Have you ever had to do out of the way, or share something special to go with you?
• What is the probability that you will meet on your business not just for sex?
• Is it time for a priority?

Many to consider here. Answering these questions can give you advice on how much your lover may be thinking, or caring for you about the sexual. Depending on how your relationship is new, the scope of these efforts may differ lovingly. Also, not everyone expresses their care in the same way.

How do you like to be loved? Tell him that., You can the most important indicator that he thinks, or one may find that attention must be paid to your preferences and deliberate attempts to connect with you on that level.

Clear that physically connected, but that's hardly a complete picture. Think about how you want to be loved, to tell about it, and see if you can find there. Either way, you will discover if you really compatible deeper way.

More information can be found in the book by Gary Chapman-consultant relationship "The Five Love Languages".

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